Not able to get orgasm

I’m 26F, and sexually active since a year. Before that i used to get masturbate using jet spray and it was going fine. Just once i becae sexual active he noticed i dont squirt neither get orgasm and he did everything possible from his end but i just can’t have it… i dont like fingering myself .. he did that and pussy eating .. cuddlings .. forplay. Different positions and all.. he had experience and it was not an issue in previous relationships.. I enjoy the sex with him. I love him.. but still its frustating that i still have to be dependant on jetspray and that too doesnt give much satisfaction now.. I’m horny most of tht time.. he’s the second one am having sex with.. with the first one i only lost my virginity and didn’t do anything much..what is the issue. I don’t understand. Indian gyno are kind of judgy and won’t provide any solutions .. please help