How do neutrals view the final refereeing

All I’m seeing on nz social media is ref abuse, personally I was definitely frustrated during the game at a few calls, but I don’t feel as mad at Barnes and the TMO due to the fact we had probably 4-5 genuine chances to win the game that unfortunately we weren’t able to take, so can’t really put too much blame on the reffing team, how did everyone feel about Barnes and his team?