Welp. Guess they're hunting me down again.

My Nmom died in '21. But like most narcs, things didn't end when she died.

My brother and cousin that worshipped the ground she walked on and despise me for going NC with her have decided that I've had it too good for too long and that Mom protected me too much, bless her.

Bullshit. Anyway.

They withheld my inheritance which. Sucked but I manage without. But now that I've moved without telling them or groveling for whatever is left that they didn't clean out, it's all hands on deck to find me apparently, because I got a message from a cousin's cousin this week asking for my address to "send a Christmas card."

I know it's bs, because for one, she's never bothered to do that before, and two she's the relative they always use to try and bring me back into the fold because she's my "favorite" relative.

Yeah, when I was NINE.

Anyway this sucks. Because it means they're looking for me. And last time they went looking for me my brother had police from two effing states over knocking on the door of my old job. They've already broken into one of my apartments before. I've been having PTSD induced kidnapping nightmares. I'm getting ready to move again which means logging serious hours at my current job and this on top of all that is a serious drain.