Why the fuck do people play this game?

Takes 30 minutes for me to load into a game, 3 HOURS for my friend, provided the game doesn't fucking crash while loading and you have to start the whole process all over again. And the whole time you're locked from using your PC, because guess what? if you alt tab out of Rust the game crashes! FUN!!! And when you FINALLY get into a server, it is so fucking boring. All that ever happens is you make a base, get instantly killed while looting, and your base gets raided and you lose all the shit you scavenged for while playing for so many fucking hours straight like this shit is a full time job. Same reason why I hate DayZ now. For what this game is it is not a fucking fun experience, wish I could take back the $30 I spent on this game like five years ago, why the hell do people still play this shit game?