gaano ka negotiable ang physical appearances sa inyo in dating?

Let’s acknowledge the fact na everybody has their own preferences talaga. We cannot deny that since it is rooted to our personality and character. We respect and celebrate all preferences as long as it does not border towards the invalidation of other’s identities.

Kaso gaano ba siya ka-hard limit for you?

Marami akong kilalang gays who rejected others/got rejected due to physical appearances. Yung tipong “ang compatible natin sa personality pero di compatible yung physical preferences natin”.

Nothing wrong with wanting that sa totoo lang, basta be respectful about it.

Ako personally, I prefer chubby/stocky/dadbod guys. Pero di naman siya sobrang reject kaagad if somebody has a potential to be a romantic partner, lalo kung ang pakilala is clever and caring.

I know if a guy is objectively hot. Pero kaya ko yan i-brush off kasi palagi akong nagdedepende sa personality, communication skills, and wavelength namin. I’ve met guys kasi na parang mukha at katawan lang ang positive attribute nila and nothing else. Meron naman, yung tipong perfect lahat kaso sa itsura lang nagkatalo. my bf of 9 years is a 6’2” twunk pero mas bet ko kasi ang chubby/stocky guys, kaso sobrang compatible kasi namin with everything else kaya ang tagal namin.

Pero sa inyo ba? Gaano siya ka-negotiable?