I don't mean this as a judgemental comment. But how do people that strive for common folks feel so lonely?

When I first encountered this sub, I thought it would be my chance to encounter other people that were also that kind of "always the odd one out, always left out, always the scorned one just because they are different".

Now, it is NOT bad not to fit in that category but still, once you talk to people in this sub you realize most of them just want the most basic (not in a bad way) common type of person. Almost anybody, actually, that can engage in a friendly conversation.

Is that really so difficult to find nowadays? Why? I find it very easy, probably because since I'm a woman there are always men wanting to go into your DMs.