Socializing

I’m a 21F, and just out of curiosity I wanted to see who do you think find it easier to socialize, males or females? (with the same gender) I was thinking about this today and it seemed to me that a male would have it easier ( maybe I was just looking for explanations for me being an outcast or I just see it this way because I have no idea what it’s like to be a male) what do you think?