Oh good, we are doing this again 🙃
Backstory/context: My mother is a narcissistic violent drunk who parent-ifed my older brother to the point I don’t even think of anyone else when I think of my childhood. He’s who went to my conferences. He went to my shows. He took care of me and made sure I ate. She kicked him out when he was 18. I was left basically abandoned in a house with no electricity or water while she broke up someone else’s marriage to get back with her high school boyfriend. He went no contact with her after she racked up a 100$ tab at the rehearsal dinner for his wedding and showed up in the sluttiest dress ever to his wedding.
I should go no contact but I’m the weak one. He manipulations, gaslighting and crying work on me so I never managed to cut off completely and am in low contact.
Because it’s Christmas she got a new number and contacted my brother. My brother went both barrels on her today and now it’s back to her crawling to me to tell her she’s a good mom and I don’t want to but she will keep coming until I give up. I’ve told her my issues before but she doesn’t believe them.
Backstory/context: My mother is a narcissistic violent drunk who parent-ifed my older brother to the point I don’t even think of anyone else when I think of my childhood. He’s who went to my conferences. He went to my shows. He took care of me and made sure I ate. She kicked him out when he was 18. I was left basically abandoned in a house with no electricity or water while she broke up someone else’s marriage to get back with her high school boyfriend. He went no contact with her after she racked up a 100$ tab at the rehearsal dinner for his wedding and showed up in the sluttiest dress ever to his wedding.
I should go no contact but I’m the weak one. He manipulations, gaslighting and crying work on me so I never managed to cut off completely and am in low contact.
Because it’s Christmas she got a new number and contacted my brother. My brother went both barrels on her today and now it’s back to her crawling to me to tell her she’s a good mom and I don’t want to but she will keep coming until I give up. I’ve told her my issues before but she doesn’t believe them.