Probably an unpopular opinion: one of Xaden’s personality traits is giving me the ick

No spoilers. Just a hot (unpopular) take.

At the very begining I found Xaden very attractive, but after finishing the first book I came to a conclusion that he is so fucking rude to everyone except Violet, obviously.

I thought that when the stakes become higher (as the books continue), he won’t have the luxury to be a dick to everyone (except Violet). But no. He is rude and mean to everyone. That does not inspire a good leader.

Be honest: would you like to be friends with this guy? I could not be friends with someone as him. Did he ever thank anyone for helping him or Violet? He is always this aggresive and territorial dude. It may be hot from the love interests point of view, cause he is mean to everyone else, but to her he is great. But I just can’t get over the fact how rude he is to everyone else and how he triets everyone, including his friends. I could never respect a person like that.

Okay, I am at your mercy. What do you think?