Can a dumb slow person graduate and become an engineer ?

I’m in mid20s, I’m realizing that I’m not really that smart funny fast capable like most of my peers and family members. They are all socially active. They know how to get things done and how to make more money. Where to find opportunities and so on. They have good respect and name in society, and I just been getting taunted & lectured by family relatives that I have to become smart. I’m constantly being bashed for being slow and scared.

I know I lack confidence and awareness because I guess I’m living in insecurities I guess. Even in community college, I’m struggling to find my purpose. I’m just doing 2 year degree but I don’t even feel like pursing. I feel that radiology tech isn’t good career. I won’t make money like my peers. I won’t get advancement opportunities so I’ve been suggested just go for engineering.