Saying adios to husband

UPDATE: The divorce is now starting to take the horrible turn I fully braced myself for. Narcissists are extremely difficult people and he’s trying to squeeze all the money, time, and sanity out of me that he can despite me already being very calm and accommodating. I thought I knew gaslighting before but wow. Whole new level.

I have done a lot of reading about the situation I was in and realized I was being emotionally and financially abused by my husband. He had intense anger issues, used weaponized incompetence, gaslighting, and would accuse me of the things he was actually guilty of. I finally got the courage to leave. Ask me anything.