Looking for my people
Some misc. bullets that maybe capture my ethos:
- Basics: 33F, Chinese, moved here for my boyfriend, blasting my eyes with blue light and calcifying my wrists working remote in tech, 1 sweet dog named Ham, textbook introvert (INFJ) but talkative & friendly, looking for real-life & meaningful social connections
- To preface, I share a car and hate driving more than 15 minutes anyways. So selfishly, I am not willing to travel to neighboring areas like Lafayette, Longmont, etc. for friendship.
- I present as fit and definitely wear athleisure as if I'm athletic, but I'm a fraud. I stay mobile by walking my dog, the occasional hike, but I don't see myself living a highly active lifestyle. But I like to watch sports! I'm an Ohio State fan (not sorry), and I'd love to get to a Buffs or Denver-based sports game
- Foodie might sound cringe, but I do highly enjoy food and eating well. It could be $ or $$$$, it just has to be good. I dream of starting a supper club among friends, even if I'm the only one hosting/cooking since I love to do it. Good food with good company, some big laughs. That is a top tier experience in my opinion.
- A movie club would be fun, too! I'm always trying to watch more best picture nominees and all A24s. I have a habit of reading critic reviews, reddit threads, and/or watching youtube dissections of movies I just watched, so a forum of real human beings with whom to debrief sounds great. Some of my comfort movies are LOTR, Wedding Crashers, anything Denis Villenueve, Pride & Prejudice, Zootopia.
- I really like stand-up comedy and listen to a good deal of comedian podcasts. Dark, witty, and foul is my kind of humor. The dopamine from a good meme or tiktok. A cry laugh, a cackle laugh, incredible. Upcoming shows I'd love to see in Denver are Stavros Hilkias, Aziz, and Morgan Jay. Hell, I'll even drive!
DM if anything resonates with you and you're down to meet up. :)