After months of dating and having unprotected sex he tells me he has HIV (undetectable) and has known the whole time.

Just as the title says, we've been seeing each other since mid-December. We've been having sex. I do take PrEP, so I was okay with having unprotected sex. I guess we all think we’ll never come in contact and that it’s just an extra layer of procreation. He showed me his lab results from the end of January being undetectable and I’ve been taking PrEP.

I guess more than anything I feel really.. disappointed? I don’t know why he wouldn’t tell me.. especially having unprotected sex with me. I feel like i can’t trust him anymore. Is it standard for undetectable people to not tell their partners? I not only feel scared but also very sad and lied to