what are the odds na attractive talaga yung mga namimeet niyo from reddit?

been a lurker of AJ for a while now, and one thing na napansin ko is maraming mga men and women alike na dito sa reddit nakakahanap ng mga either ons/fubu/fwb. and of course, one important factor when looking for a potential partner, is syempre yung physical attraction. curious tuloy ako sa mga nakakahanap dito, after the swapping of pics part ng conversation and all that, what are the odds na yung mga namimeet and nakakausap niyo turns out to be conventionally attractive talaga? yung masasabi niyong gwapo at maganda talaga sila, feeling ko kasi if talagang may itsura, they’d rather lurk sa mga dating apps where they can flaunt their looks rather than hide behind an anonymous account here sa reddit. meron naman din akong nakakausap minsan, kaso pag swap ng pics part na, hindi ko na matuloy kasi hindi ko alam if paano magrreact or ihhandle if hindi ko sila type physically and vice versa. parang kinakabahan lang ako for some reason at nahihiya lang sa possible rejection hahah.

but in your experience, in the case na nakita niyo na yung pictures nila and hindi niyo type, how do you respectfully reject them and not push the connection further?