Anyone’s surgeon give them contradictory advice? My second opinion said UPPP is never a good idea.

Looking into surgical options after poor compliance with CPAP and my ENT suggested UPPP. Then I was told by a second consultant that this surgery rarely has good results and the risks outweigh the benefits. So what is the next best option? He just said to try CPAP again but I’ve tried three machines and so many masks that I want to see what’s possible down the surgical line, especially as someone with TMJ.