Someone said I look like a lesbian because I train my biceps.

And I can’t help but now have a complex about it.

I’m training in the gym to become strong, and I particularly love training arms. I do have nice biceps but they’re not overly defined enough to make me look masculine or so I thought.

But someone said I was a ‘man lady’ and someone else asked if I was a lesbian 🤦🏼‍♀️

I’m not a lesbian. Nothing wrong with being one but personally I am straight and I want to look straight. But why does training upper body make me a lesbian all of a sudden?! Is it so bad to want to have nice arms?!