A Post about a "certain someone" (please read)
tw// sexual assault and pedo talk
this post is about someone that goes by the name of GOH KIE REN from TP school of engineering. whenever his name comes up, it has NEVER been something good and it makes me sick to see that he hasnt gotten any punishment for the things that he has done. where do i even begin? what about we start with the fact that hes literally a sexual assaulter. His "MO" is getting close with girls, seemingly as friends, but if he finds you attractive or even has a SLIVER of attraction to her, he starts "making his moves". For example, incessently asking her to go out with him one on one, even though shes showed signs of discomfort of it and also has outright said no to him multiple times. One of the incidents is that he touched one of the people that i know, while she was asleep. He took advantage of the lack of her conciousness as to what was going on around her, and decided to touch her in inappropriate places. Following this, im also putting this here as a warning about him. DO NOT BE ALONE WITH HIM, OR DATE HIM. tbh you shouldnt even be friends with him. kie ren is NOT a good person to date, he is unstable mentally and cant handle conflict, without making himself the victim.
secondly, he is literally a pedo. he was constantly hitting on this 14/15yo girl, despite knowing her age while he was 17/18yo. this should already speak for itself, but im going to add more to it anyway. She constantly rebuffed him time and time again, but he would keep on trying to get her to go out one on one with her. She was in the same friend group as him, so they often went out in a group, where he would purposely sit very close to her and "accidentally" touch her. When told to stop, he would pout and stop for awhile, before continuing again at the next place or the next meetup. once he even has the slightest bit of attraction to someone, NOTHING WILL STOP HIM. he will do shit like this in both public and private, seemingly regardless of age (bro really took the singapore pledge literally lol)
he acts inappropriately around girls, even if you think hes "just a friend", "just a bestfriend", be careful around him. he will do shit like jacking off to your photos (hes literally a fucking gooner). Youd think that from the constant rejections and friendzones that he'd learn his lesson but apparently fucking not.
other than those VERY good reasons to write this already, hes also a very shit friend. he constantly acts like the victim even if he was in the wrong, refusing to take accountability and going to other people for "advice" when he really just wants to be indulged and told that hes on the right side of the story. he lies about his friends behind his back to get "brownie points" and if you know him he probably has done it to you too. when confronted with ANYTHING that he does that you dont think is good, he blames it on his family situation and his parents and apparently everything else wrong that happened in his life caused him to make that mistake. He doesnt listen to advice, doesnt listen to criticism, even constructive ones. He is in the situation hes in because he chose to be there. There should be no empathy for anything that he says. no matter how "heartbreaking" his story is.
thats it for my rant about him. i hope that yall are listening. heed my advice and dont fucking talk to this man.
TL//DR: Goh Kie Ren is a sexual assaulter and a pedo. You should not be friends or in contact with him, especially if you are a woman.