Getting good sex is immensely beneficial for your mental health and sometimes getting into an exciting relationship CAN solve your mental health struggles

I am tired of seeing people say "getting in a relationship won't solve your mental health struggles" or "you must heal yourself before getting in a relationship". I get what they're saying but I feel it's not the whole story.

I don't want or get into details but I actually used to be depressed, severely even. Getting into a relationship with a guy who was actually exciting helped me get better. It was not even a very healthy relationship, it was toxic, yet I feel it pushed me to get better and improve myself. Wanting to prove to someone that you're not a lost cause can be a great motivator. Getting hot sex is also very beneficial. There was a woman from Europe who had autism and BPD and chose to euthanize herself. She had a boyfriend who was an engineer or something. I can't help but thinking that if she left that boring guy and got with someone passionate she could have become better. I am actually autistic too so I could relate to her.