Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.

I’ve noticed most of the stuff everyone complains about here both men and women do but we’re always trying to act like “no only this person does it”.

We can say that both men and women will often overlook or mistreat women they don’t find attractive.

Men and women both tend to lie about their preferences to seem more humble and deflect any accusations of being shallow.

Men and women don’t know how to communicate.

Men and women will often make poor decisions when dating.

Do both men and women make poor decisions and then complain about said choices? Yes.

Etc etc all of this can be said for men and women.

I think people suck at dating in general which is fine most people date when they’re young dumb and reckless.