Distraught

I’m supposed to fly out to see my LO next week. I was just informed his visits got taken away. I can’t cancel anything I have booked. I’m an absolute mess right now. I’m now flying over 1,000 miles to not even see my partner. I’m not okay, and I don’t have faith that they’ll overturn this. If anyone has any suggestions on if I could even try and get this visit back let me know… I’ve already emailed the visiting Sargent and he told me that it didn’t matter that I couldn’t refund my plane and hotel tickets. My LO didn’t even do anything, he got lumped into a mass issue because he was in his cell next door. I hate this, and now I’m wondering if it’s a sign to not even be with him.