Can’t find a partner to marry

Salaam, I’m 31(F) , living in Singapore and facing major difficulties settling down. I joined Muzz but the guys over there will only meet once or twice out of formality then when it comes to the actual conversation of marriage, nothing materialises. I asked a guy if he would be keen to marry by February but he said it was too soon and he would like to get to know me better and establish “a proper understanding and relationship” before marriage . The thing is as much as I feel it’s important to have conversations , sometimes when you spend a few months just talking and nothing good comes out of it then it is simply a waste of time.

I want to have kids and the truth is time is pretty much thinning out for me . I don’t know what to do and I have recently completed umrah as well. I know that prayers do wonders but given my situation I am very certain it will be almost impossible to find someone to settle down with , every single person around me is married . In my 20s no one really approached me for marriage and the ones which did always had some other girl they found more interesting or suitable for them— which then left me with zero option and I had to start all over to talk to a new guy. I hate being stuck in the loop and it is seriously affecting my morale and self esteem. I can do housework ; I know how to cook; I’m into fashion and have lots of hobbies. I don’t think I deserve this .

Please help me come up with a solution and I would appreciate no bashing from anyone. As I feel very helpless about my situation . Need tips , need advise , need some magic potion or anything in the book which has worked out for any of you here. thank you in advance.