Are smut equivalent of porn

Today my gf asked me if i watch porn , and i was honest and said yes, she didn't said anything but later in some topic she suddenly said "gf hote hue koi porn kaise dekh sakta hai" and i thought ig yeah and i shouldn't watch it afterall cause it's morally bad? And after some time when we were chatting she said "lord series wapas padhni hai" (for boys , its a smut) so I told her the next second "koi bf hote hue kaise smut padh sakta hai" So she stopped msging for a while and then said "terko porn hi dekhna haina , bruh dekhle" , and mind me it's not about watching porn its about equality, then she said " bro just wanna watch porn , porn over gf" so i too said "smut padhna hai bas , smut over bf " 😭😭 am i wrong here?

Edit:- now she won't answer me and just said " dont msg me go watch porn" 😭

Edit 2:- female users are saying it's smut is not the same , male users (mostly) are saying it's the same