Is there any subreddit for me

I would like to know if there are any good subreddits that fit this criteria. Basically I want a sub to discuss male issues but without some of the problems that come from the popular ones

r/mensrights is too sexist for my taste

r/menslib pretends like misandry doesn't exist and that we shouldn't talk about our issues.

So basically one where I can talk about issues without hate or gaslighting