whats with the stigma behind borderline people being " great in bed " this always puts so much pressure on me .

i struggle telling my new partners i have bpd sometimes because alot of times ive told someone they expect so much out of me when we become intimate .

i always hear them say bpd makes you last forever and if anything people have trouble actually finishing or reaching orgasm at all . obviously thats a problem in itself but for me alot of the time thats not the case for me .

i struggle alot of the time with cumming too fast especially if its with someone i really like and havent got use to making love with them alot . literally the only time i have trouble ejaculating is when i dont have much romantic feelings for the person and im just going on autopilot and questioning how i even got to the point of giving myself up to them in that way that the sex isnt even enjoyable for me .