Im just starting to notice something at 30.

People often want you to ask if they want you to do something, even if they were gonna say no. And sometimes, they actually want to say yes, but they'll still say no, and they want you to keep offering. For example, let's say someone is doing something, like the dishes. They'll want you to offer to do them. But still say no. They just want to know you care and that its an option. Other people mystify me. I would often not even ask because I know they'll say no. But they'd still get upset that I didn't, not mad, but disappointed. And then I'd be so confused as to why.