What are you looking for in a guy?
This is for the women who actually want a guy and aren’t “done with guys” or “hate all men”. I’m going to insert what I think you’re looking for, and you can correct me if I’m wrong. I think as men we have a general concept or idea of what we think you like, but I’d like to hear your opinion on my opinion.
I really think you have to have at least most of these boxes ticked
Money 💰 need to have the ability to provide stability & security. In other words, a man without a house, a car and a stable job or business is out of the question.
Emotional Strength 🧠 emotional strength makes you guys feel weaker and more feminine and gives you the ability to display emotion without us overreacting. Also you’re afraid of new men, you think they’re going to assault you in some way if they come off too temperamental, insecure, or uh creepy (which needs to be defined) how exactly do you define creepy? Is it just anything that rubs you the wrong way?
physical strength 💪 is physically attractive to you. Psychologically it helps because you know you are protected in public which is difficult for you without a man (unless you have a gun in which case maybe you don’t worry)
Social skills. 🗣️ This is a weird one, I’m actually unsure if you’re more attracted to a man who articulates himself well or the shy and quiet type.
I know funny 😆 is very attractive to you.
I also know serious 🧐 is attractive to you.
Do you need both?
Height. Is this mandatory? All the short men want the tall women, but the tall women want the taller men, but the tall men want the short women so it’s all messed up lol
Experience. Experience is attractive to you You don’t want to have to teach a 40 yo virgin what to do.
I think it’s a turnoff when men open up to you, but does this depend on the man? He certainly can never cry to you right? It’s a turnoff when he expresses insecurity right?
Btw big dicks are important or no?
There’s a lot to cover here. What am I missing?
And how much of this am I wrong on? I’m open to listen. Roast me if you have to