Your older (pre 4B) Auntie is rooting for you. :)
I'm an older woman, 55 years old. I was a serial monogamist for over 20 years when I "resigned" from romantic/sexual relationships in my late 30s (in 2007). My friends and relatives acted like there was something "wrong" with me for choosing independence (freedom), but it always felt like the right decision. Watching so many younger women choose the same path has been very reassuring. I'm not alone in my beliefs anymore, and I was on the right track all along. Speaking from experience, it's been worth it. My only regret is that I didn't do it when I was much younger. Keep going, ladies. Your older Auntie is rooting for you.